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It is very unusual (although not unknown) for a baby to make either anti-A or anti-B at birth, as the immune system is generally too immature to produce such antibodies. It is virtually unknown for a baby to make either an auto-anti-A or an auto-anti-B (it is incredibly rare for an adult to do this, let alone a baby), and a baby certainly will not produce any IgG antibodies. If a baby is suffering from HDFN due to ABO, the antibody must, therefore, have been derived from the mother1.
For the mother's antibodies to transfer from her circulation to the foetal circulation, the antibody has to be IgG in structure (IgM will not cross the placenta). So, if the baby is suffering from ABO HDN, the baby's red cells must be coated (sensitised) with maternal IgG ABO antibodies. If the baby's sample is put at 4oC (put in a fridge) overnight, when it is examined the next morning, by tipping the sample, agglutination can be seen (usually macroscopically), and this can only be due to maternal ABO IgG antibodies. In Addition, a paper by Voak et al2 spoke about anti-A IgG antibodies causing agglutination.
Is this because the ABO antigen is close to the end of the carrier molecule (like M is near the end of glycophorin A)? Well, certainly the N-acetyl-D- galactose molecule that makes up the A antigen (and the D-galactose molecule that makes up the B antigen), is found at the end of the oligosaccharide molecule upon which the ABO antigens are found, but, in addition, there are some 250, 000 and 370, 000 A antigens expressed per red cell (although there are some 800, 000 GPA sites per red cell3). The site of the ABO antigens are, therefore, likely to be important.
References:
1. Klein HG, Anstee DJ. Mollison's Blood Transfusion in Clinical Medicine. 12th edition, 2014, Wiley Blackwell, chapters four and twelve.
2. Voak D, Abu-Sin AY, Downie DM. Observations on the thermal optimum, saline agglutinating activity and partial neutralization characteristics of IgG anti-A antibodies. Vox Sanguinis 1973; 24: 246-257. DOI 10.1111/j.1423-0410.1973.tb02636.x.
3. Reid ME, Lomas-Francis C, Olsson ML. The Blood Group Antigen FactsBook. 3rd edition, 2012, Academic Press, page 62.
I hope that helps, even if it doesn't win me the bonus points!!!!!!!!